• pressure to cum
• pressure to do things I’ve said I don’t want to do (hard limits)
• 69 - I generally like to take turns with oral, otherwise I don’t feel like I can focus
• being told who I should or should not have sex with
• being pressured for photos/videos having sex with other partners/people
• anything that causes permanent marks or bleeding
• extensive role plays
• being ignored for long periods of time
• being degraded/humiliated beyond name calling
• being spit on/spitting in mouth
• power dynamics extending outside of sex